Date: 2018-01-09 23:44
So either one of two things happened. Either he felt you were hesitant because of the delay in your response OR he was never that interested in the first place. One way to find out is to reach out to him and try to reconnect. If he doesn 8767 t reply, then you know which option I just gave best fits this scenario.
Online dating has its pitfalls. It 8767 s not a perfect world. But if negotiated correctly, it 8767 s a boon, especially for women, who historically have not been able to be as proactive as they would like to be. There are however no free rides here. Work has to be done. You are going to have to wade through messages. You are going to have to change sites every few months. And you are going to have to deal with ghosts and faders.
The other problem that occurs is that people develop such a feeling of familiarity with their pen pal that they fear that maybe they will be rejected once they take things off line. They put off meeting face to face because they 8767 re scared the reality won 8767 t match the fantasy.
I 8767 m starting to sound a bit like a broken record with some of these points. Someone who engages in weeks worth of chats with no attempt to meet offline is a likely Fade/Flake candidate.
i 8767 m a little in love with someone who ghosts regularly. i 8767 m not sure exactly what is up with it, but i have decided that the next conversation we have has to be about this dynamic. i feel he is just extremely sensitive, and maybe there is some trauma in there. we love each other in a very strange way. i don 8767 t think he ever has a bad thought or feeling about me he just goes deep inside and has a hard time navigating back out. There is nothing 8775 jerk 8776 about him. he is lovely, except for this communication difficulty. i keep my heart open, and retreat when i need to, when i get hurt.
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Don 8767 t believe me? Try the ghost chat feature. You 8767 ll be able to get away with it for a bit, but once they figure out you 8767 re a mortal, you 8767 re looking down the barrel of some bad juju.
I 8767 ve also found that early- to mid-January, after the holidays, is usually a much better response. It 8767 s after New Years, and before Valentine 8767 s Day, so more, uh, fertile ground
I was ghosted by a guy who gave every indication of being truly interested in me. We even slept together. The last night I saw him, he slept touching me all night and held me in the morning. After I figured out that he ghosted me, I set up a fake dating profile. When he responded, I agreed to meet him for a date. After I kept him waiting there a bit, I sent him a message telling him it was me, and that he was an asshole, among other things. It didn 8767 t take away my hurt, but it sure did help.